This is kind of a repeat topic for me but I wanted to explain this in different words because of how much I believe in it. If you are trying to change your life and trying to face your fears, no matter the outcome, you are strong if you are weak. I’ve used examples like this in the past but I’ll use one again. If you are born not afraid of roller coasters and you go on them, all you did was be born without that fear. If you are afraid of roller coasters and go onto one anyway, even if you scream and cry, you did it. You faced that horrible fear. Many people think fear is weakness, but I think it is very logical to say that being born without fear is weakness. Luckily, everyone is scared of something. That sentence right there is another example of changing your perspective. I’ve never heard anyone say, “luckily everyone is scared of something.” We all think it would be lucky if we are all fearless. Well this just goes to show you that you can find value in anything if you set your mind to it. Think of loving yourself as an adventure. You will be able to find it.